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Urgent: H** texts XX. Now what?
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 22:04
Hi Ladiezzzzzz
I've been reading this forum for quite some time now, but it's the first time I'm actually posting something. (Oh, and I'm sorry I'm writing this in English - I'm so upset and I simply can't express how angry I am in a language that is not my own.)
So I have a SERIOUS problem. My husband just received this text from a woman I don't know. There've been some relationship issues in the past, so we agreed that I would read all his incoming texts. Just to rule out the possibility of him cheating again. He says he loves me but I can't forget this one time he broke my heart (although, it turned out that it wasn't exactly one time, but that's not the point here). Anyways, this Dutch woman sends him a text, I can't quite remember the exact words, but it contained two X-es. Not just one, two!!! I obviously got upset with her, called her, told her the truth (that she's a h**), and texted her that she's dead. She never replied to any of my text, so chances are that she's really scared (or really dead, but c'mon, even I don't believe that). She ruined my Christmas, and my kids' Christmas too!
And I don't know what to do. We just had Christmas dinner and I tried not to think of it. My husband doesn't know - I deleted the text as soon as I saw it, and I don't want him to know either. But keeping up appearances is so hard and I'm pretty desperate. I'd appreciate any advice! Please!?
I've been reading this forum for quite some time now, but it's the first time I'm actually posting something. (Oh, and I'm sorry I'm writing this in English - I'm so upset and I simply can't express how angry I am in a language that is not my own.)
So I have a SERIOUS problem. My husband just received this text from a woman I don't know. There've been some relationship issues in the past, so we agreed that I would read all his incoming texts. Just to rule out the possibility of him cheating again. He says he loves me but I can't forget this one time he broke my heart (although, it turned out that it wasn't exactly one time, but that's not the point here). Anyways, this Dutch woman sends him a text, I can't quite remember the exact words, but it contained two X-es. Not just one, two!!! I obviously got upset with her, called her, told her the truth (that she's a h**), and texted her that she's dead. She never replied to any of my text, so chances are that she's really scared (or really dead, but c'mon, even I don't believe that). She ruined my Christmas, and my kids' Christmas too!
And I don't know what to do. We just had Christmas dinner and I tried not to think of it. My husband doesn't know - I deleted the text as soon as I saw it, and I don't want him to know either. But keeping up appearances is so hard and I'm pretty desperate. I'd appreciate any advice! Please!?
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 22:10
without reading any responses, you are the one that ruined christmas for yourself. I text xx's to friends, they're friends. Typing an 'x' into a mobile phone does not equite with shagging someones brains out...
Your behaviour to this woman is bloody ridiculous over the top. Unless you have any more to go on that two 'x's it means fuck all. Really... Breath in, and out and relax.
Your behaviour to this woman is bloody ridiculous over the top. Unless you have any more to go on that two 'x's it means fuck all. Really... Breath in, and out and relax.
