Relaties
alle pijlers
Urgent: H** texts XX. Now what?
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 22:04
Hi Ladiezzzzzz
I've been reading this forum for quite some time now, but it's the first time I'm actually posting something. (Oh, and I'm sorry I'm writing this in English - I'm so upset and I simply can't express how angry I am in a language that is not my own.)
So I have a SERIOUS problem. My husband just received this text from a woman I don't know. There've been some relationship issues in the past, so we agreed that I would read all his incoming texts. Just to rule out the possibility of him cheating again. He says he loves me but I can't forget this one time he broke my heart (although, it turned out that it wasn't exactly one time, but that's not the point here). Anyways, this Dutch woman sends him a text, I can't quite remember the exact words, but it contained two X-es. Not just one, two!!! I obviously got upset with her, called her, told her the truth (that she's a h**), and texted her that she's dead. She never replied to any of my text, so chances are that she's really scared (or really dead, but c'mon, even I don't believe that). She ruined my Christmas, and my kids' Christmas too!
And I don't know what to do. We just had Christmas dinner and I tried not to think of it. My husband doesn't know - I deleted the text as soon as I saw it, and I don't want him to know either. But keeping up appearances is so hard and I'm pretty desperate. I'd appreciate any advice! Please!?
I've been reading this forum for quite some time now, but it's the first time I'm actually posting something. (Oh, and I'm sorry I'm writing this in English - I'm so upset and I simply can't express how angry I am in a language that is not my own.)
So I have a SERIOUS problem. My husband just received this text from a woman I don't know. There've been some relationship issues in the past, so we agreed that I would read all his incoming texts. Just to rule out the possibility of him cheating again. He says he loves me but I can't forget this one time he broke my heart (although, it turned out that it wasn't exactly one time, but that's not the point here). Anyways, this Dutch woman sends him a text, I can't quite remember the exact words, but it contained two X-es. Not just one, two!!! I obviously got upset with her, called her, told her the truth (that she's a h**), and texted her that she's dead. She never replied to any of my text, so chances are that she's really scared (or really dead, but c'mon, even I don't believe that). She ruined my Christmas, and my kids' Christmas too!
And I don't know what to do. We just had Christmas dinner and I tried not to think of it. My husband doesn't know - I deleted the text as soon as I saw it, and I don't want him to know either. But keeping up appearances is so hard and I'm pretty desperate. I'd appreciate any advice! Please!?
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 23:15
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 23:16
quote:Cilka schreef op 25 december 2008 @ 23:15:
Ah, but then you should watch Dutch television more often. WE all know that you'll end up hanging from a window when you leave out the X when sending text messages.
The poor woman, she was just trying to escape such a cruel fate, and now she receives threats by including the X!Yes exactly, its all the governments fault for letting me be misinformed!
Ah, but then you should watch Dutch television more often. WE all know that you'll end up hanging from a window when you leave out the X when sending text messages.
The poor woman, she was just trying to escape such a cruel fate, and now she receives threats by including the X!Yes exactly, its all the governments fault for letting me be misinformed!
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 23:17
quote:minny schreef op 25 december 2008 @ 23:14:
[...]
You wouldn't recognize reality if you had your head up its arse and it farted a song called "I am reality" straight in your face So you think you're funny, huh? Let me tell you, you're not! Reality is you X-ing my husband. Reality is me not liking that. Reality is you will die, will die!
[...]
You wouldn't recognize reality if you had your head up its arse and it farted a song called "I am reality" straight in your face So you think you're funny, huh? Let me tell you, you're not! Reality is you X-ing my husband. Reality is me not liking that. Reality is you will die, will die!
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 23:25
quote:extrahalo schreef op 25 december 2008 @ 23:23:
I just asked my irish mom and she says it is indeed NOT normal for irish/british people to end texts with x, unless you are really together ...
although i doubt her up-to-date knowledge about texting in Ireland..... (She is quite modern though, she has a iPhone and knows how to use it...)See, that's what I've been trying to tell her for hours but she just won't listen.
I just asked my irish mom and she says it is indeed NOT normal for irish/british people to end texts with x, unless you are really together ...
although i doubt her up-to-date knowledge about texting in Ireland..... (She is quite modern though, she has a iPhone and knows how to use it...)See, that's what I've been trying to tell her for hours but she just won't listen.
