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Urgent: H** texts XX. Now what?
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 22:04
Hi Ladiezzzzzz
I've been reading this forum for quite some time now, but it's the first time I'm actually posting something. (Oh, and I'm sorry I'm writing this in English - I'm so upset and I simply can't express how angry I am in a language that is not my own.)
So I have a SERIOUS problem. My husband just received this text from a woman I don't know. There've been some relationship issues in the past, so we agreed that I would read all his incoming texts. Just to rule out the possibility of him cheating again. He says he loves me but I can't forget this one time he broke my heart (although, it turned out that it wasn't exactly one time, but that's not the point here). Anyways, this Dutch woman sends him a text, I can't quite remember the exact words, but it contained two X-es. Not just one, two!!! I obviously got upset with her, called her, told her the truth (that she's a h**), and texted her that she's dead. She never replied to any of my text, so chances are that she's really scared (or really dead, but c'mon, even I don't believe that). She ruined my Christmas, and my kids' Christmas too!
And I don't know what to do. We just had Christmas dinner and I tried not to think of it. My husband doesn't know - I deleted the text as soon as I saw it, and I don't want him to know either. But keeping up appearances is so hard and I'm pretty desperate. I'd appreciate any advice! Please!?
I've been reading this forum for quite some time now, but it's the first time I'm actually posting something. (Oh, and I'm sorry I'm writing this in English - I'm so upset and I simply can't express how angry I am in a language that is not my own.)
So I have a SERIOUS problem. My husband just received this text from a woman I don't know. There've been some relationship issues in the past, so we agreed that I would read all his incoming texts. Just to rule out the possibility of him cheating again. He says he loves me but I can't forget this one time he broke my heart (although, it turned out that it wasn't exactly one time, but that's not the point here). Anyways, this Dutch woman sends him a text, I can't quite remember the exact words, but it contained two X-es. Not just one, two!!! I obviously got upset with her, called her, told her the truth (that she's a h**), and texted her that she's dead. She never replied to any of my text, so chances are that she's really scared (or really dead, but c'mon, even I don't believe that). She ruined my Christmas, and my kids' Christmas too!
And I don't know what to do. We just had Christmas dinner and I tried not to think of it. My husband doesn't know - I deleted the text as soon as I saw it, and I don't want him to know either. But keeping up appearances is so hard and I'm pretty desperate. I'd appreciate any advice! Please!?
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 23:36
Ow c'mon, you fucking prude! Of course your husband is cheating on you big time, who can survive a screaming, slipping, psycho-bitch like you? The only reason he didn't break up with you yet is 'cause he's afraid you'll grab a knife and stab him to death.
The only thing you're doing wrong is blaming Minny: she doesn't even like your husband, she's dutch, she has taste. Ask his secretary, she's a much more likely victim. (And again: completely understandable, no decent man can survive living with a bitch like you.)
The only thing you're doing wrong is blaming Minny: she doesn't even like your husband, she's dutch, she has taste. Ask his secretary, she's a much more likely victim. (And again: completely understandable, no decent man can survive living with a bitch like you.)
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 23:37
quote:Minie86 schreef op 25 december 2008 @ 23:35:
I X all my friends all the time, and they X me back. I like being X-ed. My husband couldn't care less.
So stop whining and get your head out of your thundercloud. Wishing someone a very merry X-mas ( ) is normal.
Your name resembles Minny's too much for me to take you seriously!
I X all my friends all the time, and they X me back. I like being X-ed. My husband couldn't care less.
So stop whining and get your head out of your thundercloud. Wishing someone a very merry X-mas ( ) is normal.
Your name resembles Minny's too much for me to take you seriously!
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 23:37
quote:tangerine schreef op 25 december 2008 @ 23:36:
Ow c'mon, you fucking prude! Of course your husband is cheating on you big time, who can survive a screaming, slipping, psycho-bitch like you? The only reason he didn't break up with you yet is 'cause he's afraid you'll grab a knife and stab him to death.
The only thing you're doing wrong is blaming Minny: she doesn't even like your husband, she's dutch, she has taste. Ask his secretary, she's a much more likely victim. (And again: completely understandable, no decent man can survive living with a bitch like you.)
Ow c'mon, you fucking prude! Of course your husband is cheating on you big time, who can survive a screaming, slipping, psycho-bitch like you? The only reason he didn't break up with you yet is 'cause he's afraid you'll grab a knife and stab him to death.
The only thing you're doing wrong is blaming Minny: she doesn't even like your husband, she's dutch, she has taste. Ask his secretary, she's a much more likely victim. (And again: completely understandable, no decent man can survive living with a bitch like you.)
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 23:38
quote:MerryChristmas schreef op 25 december 2008 @ 23:35:
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Then why are you studying English?Because dear, I would like to improve my English to a higher level than just the common sort of language that your sort tends to use.
(And because you need a piece of paper to prove you can do anything around here, just being able to do it isn't enough )
[...]
Then why are you studying English?Because dear, I would like to improve my English to a higher level than just the common sort of language that your sort tends to use.
(And because you need a piece of paper to prove you can do anything around here, just being able to do it isn't enough )
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 23:38
quote:tangerine schreef op 25 december 2008 @ 23:36:
Ow c'mon, you fucking prude! Of course your husband is cheating on you big time, who can survive a screaming, slipping, psycho-bitch like you? The only reason he didn't break up with you yet is 'cause he's afraid you'll grab a knife and stab him to death.
The only thing you're doing wrong is blaming Minny: she doesn't even like your husband, she's dutch, she has taste. Ask his secretary, she's a much more likely victim. (And again: completely understandable, no decent man can survive living with a bitch like you.)Angels, they are calling names, again.
Ow c'mon, you fucking prude! Of course your husband is cheating on you big time, who can survive a screaming, slipping, psycho-bitch like you? The only reason he didn't break up with you yet is 'cause he's afraid you'll grab a knife and stab him to death.
The only thing you're doing wrong is blaming Minny: she doesn't even like your husband, she's dutch, she has taste. Ask his secretary, she's a much more likely victim. (And again: completely understandable, no decent man can survive living with a bitch like you.)Angels, they are calling names, again.
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 23:43
quote:MerryChristmas schreef op 25 december 2008 @ 23:38:
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Angels, they are calling names, again.
Ow c'mon, and calling someone a whore and telling someone she's dead is normal in your enviroment? What are you, the English equivalent of the Tokkies?
You can put as much *** in your texts as you want, we all know what you mean - you're name-calling Minny, so I think you're blaming me here for something you can do way, way better.
We even have a term in Holland for psycho-behaviour like this, it probably sounds familiar to you 'cause the term is rather English:
STALKING.
[...]
Angels, they are calling names, again.
Ow c'mon, and calling someone a whore and telling someone she's dead is normal in your enviroment? What are you, the English equivalent of the Tokkies?
You can put as much *** in your texts as you want, we all know what you mean - you're name-calling Minny, so I think you're blaming me here for something you can do way, way better.
We even have a term in Holland for psycho-behaviour like this, it probably sounds familiar to you 'cause the term is rather English:
STALKING.
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 23:43
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 23:43
