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Urgent: H** texts XX. Now what?
donderdag 25 december 2008 om 22:04
Hi Ladiezzzzzz
I've been reading this forum for quite some time now, but it's the first time I'm actually posting something. (Oh, and I'm sorry I'm writing this in English - I'm so upset and I simply can't express how angry I am in a language that is not my own.)
So I have a SERIOUS problem. My husband just received this text from a woman I don't know. There've been some relationship issues in the past, so we agreed that I would read all his incoming texts. Just to rule out the possibility of him cheating again. He says he loves me but I can't forget this one time he broke my heart (although, it turned out that it wasn't exactly one time, but that's not the point here). Anyways, this Dutch woman sends him a text, I can't quite remember the exact words, but it contained two X-es. Not just one, two!!! I obviously got upset with her, called her, told her the truth (that she's a h**), and texted her that she's dead. She never replied to any of my text, so chances are that she's really scared (or really dead, but c'mon, even I don't believe that). She ruined my Christmas, and my kids' Christmas too!
And I don't know what to do. We just had Christmas dinner and I tried not to think of it. My husband doesn't know - I deleted the text as soon as I saw it, and I don't want him to know either. But keeping up appearances is so hard and I'm pretty desperate. I'd appreciate any advice! Please!?
I've been reading this forum for quite some time now, but it's the first time I'm actually posting something. (Oh, and I'm sorry I'm writing this in English - I'm so upset and I simply can't express how angry I am in a language that is not my own.)
So I have a SERIOUS problem. My husband just received this text from a woman I don't know. There've been some relationship issues in the past, so we agreed that I would read all his incoming texts. Just to rule out the possibility of him cheating again. He says he loves me but I can't forget this one time he broke my heart (although, it turned out that it wasn't exactly one time, but that's not the point here). Anyways, this Dutch woman sends him a text, I can't quite remember the exact words, but it contained two X-es. Not just one, two!!! I obviously got upset with her, called her, told her the truth (that she's a h**), and texted her that she's dead. She never replied to any of my text, so chances are that she's really scared (or really dead, but c'mon, even I don't believe that). She ruined my Christmas, and my kids' Christmas too!
And I don't know what to do. We just had Christmas dinner and I tried not to think of it. My husband doesn't know - I deleted the text as soon as I saw it, and I don't want him to know either. But keeping up appearances is so hard and I'm pretty desperate. I'd appreciate any advice! Please!?
vrijdag 26 december 2008 om 01:57
Kreeg vanavond een SMS van een 'dinnetje om dit (en de aanverwante) topic te lezen. In 1 woord: HILARIOUS!
Het brengt me wel op het idee om mijn ex-minnaar een SMS met 2 'xx' te sturen, eens kijken of zijn vriendin hier dan een topic gaat starten (of juist alsnog gaat reageren...).
Anyways, ik stuur vaak een 'x' of 'xx' of 'xxx' of 'kus' of 'dikke kus' of 'kussie' of 'kiss' etc., net waar ik zin in heb en ongeacht wie het is of wat hij/zij thuis op de bank heeft zitten. Kijk... als je nou een SMS krijgt met 'ik heb zin in je', vind ik het anders.
Het brengt me wel op het idee om mijn ex-minnaar een SMS met 2 'xx' te sturen, eens kijken of zijn vriendin hier dan een topic gaat starten (of juist alsnog gaat reageren...).
Anyways, ik stuur vaak een 'x' of 'xx' of 'xxx' of 'kus' of 'dikke kus' of 'kussie' of 'kiss' etc., net waar ik zin in heb en ongeacht wie het is of wat hij/zij thuis op de bank heeft zitten. Kijk... als je nou een SMS krijgt met 'ik heb zin in je', vind ik het anders.
vrijdag 26 december 2008 om 23:55
zaterdag 27 december 2008 om 00:31
quote:mfihlo schreef op 26 december 2008 @ 23:55:
Please tell me this is not real! Are we really spending more than 16 pages on someone sending a friend a message with XX in it? All of this is too much of a coincidence to be true.
But I had fun reading it though. Merry Xmas everyone! XXX
And yet another provocative post.
I think it's disturbing to see how you're making fun of someone else's pain.
Please tell me this is not real! Are we really spending more than 16 pages on someone sending a friend a message with XX in it? All of this is too much of a coincidence to be true.
But I had fun reading it though. Merry Xmas everyone! XXX
And yet another provocative post.
I think it's disturbing to see how you're making fun of someone else's pain.
zaterdag 27 december 2008 om 00:49
quote:Guinnevere schreef op 27 december 2008 @ 00:40:
Want some serious advice?
Yes please
Alright, I'll give you one:
Awesome!
get on and take care of your anger management issues.
Issues, issues? My shrink never pointed out those issues to me, so they must be in your rather than my head.
She only sent two kisses, no big deal!
Well, I happen to think it IS a big deal.
Want some serious advice?
Yes please
Alright, I'll give you one:
Awesome!
get on and take care of your anger management issues.
Issues, issues? My shrink never pointed out those issues to me, so they must be in your rather than my head.
She only sent two kisses, no big deal!
Well, I happen to think it IS a big deal.
